Dear husband & father of angel babies,
Happy Father’s Day babe. You are such a great dad to our angel babies in heaven & our future children here on earth. You seriously give your all daily to your family, your work, school, & I just want you to know that it doesn’t all go un-noticed. You may think that this day celebrating dads is not a day for you, but your love for your children while they were here on earth & your heartache over their short time here proves that this day is all about you. I know you are a strong silent type when it comes to expressing feelings, the man who comforts me & holds me & lets me cry on your shoulders while you show strength & stateliness, but I know how much you love all of our angel babies in heaven & how much it hurt you to say goodbye to them & how much you wish they were here on earth with us. With every loss we have had you had to watch me in pain physically & emotionally as I miscarried & you always tell me how you wish you would never have to see me go through something like this ever again & how you wish you could take it away. But the truth is that I’m glad it’s me going through the physical pain of miscarriage & not you because it would kill me to see you having to feel physical pain along with the emotional pain I know you already have that alone makes my heart hurt so deep. It just shows how courageous you are to be by my side as I’m in pain & to be able to hold me, comfort me, & be able to be the rock for the two of us to start our healing after a loss of a child. I’m so grateful for your caring soul & how comforting you are through our fertility journey & how you never make me feel like there is something wrong with me as my body struggles to carry our babies full term. You cherish our babies, you praise me for being a good mom, & you do everything in your power to make our walk with fertility as easy as possible. You prove how you will raise our children here on earth in a Christ filled home with your close walk with God that you lead daily & your constant prayers for our angel babies & our future babies here on earth. You are the best husband & my best friend & the best dad already. You impress me daily with your goals, achievements, & motivation. Our babies & future babies are so blessed to have you to look up to. You give me hope, you give me strength, & you give me the drive to continue on this fertility journey with joy, grace, & thankfulness. I hope you never feel forgotten or dismissed as you and many others are comforting me during our miscarriages, & that you know that you are thought of, prayed for, & truly & deeply cared for by many through our losses as you are our babies father & they are a part of you too. I want you to know what a wonderful dad you already are & that you are being celebrated this Father’s Day & everyday by our tiny little babes in heaven. We love you!
Love your wife & your angel babies.
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